My girlfriend has been hanging out with a childhood friend of hers lately. I have no problem with this, but recently she has been staying at his place until the evening and sometimes comes home pretty late. Last week she stayed at his place for a movie and came home at midnight, I greeted her and she was acting normally but this changed when I started to seduce her hoping to have sex with her. She told me that she was tired, not in the mood etc. but after a while of exchanging kisses she agreed to have sex with me. She tried to stop me from doing any foreplay but I insisted and started to give her oral sex.
This is where it gets weird: the smell and taste were pretty weird, in our 4 year relationship with at least 2 times of oral sex sessions per week I had never tasted or smelled that on her before. The taste was bitter and I could notice that she was uncomfortable as well, the smell was not her usual vagina smell, it smelled… Different… I stopped and had sex with her anyways.
Is this a sign that she had sex with the guy? What the hell should I do? After arriving from her friends house my girlfriend  had sex with me , I gave her oral sex and noticed she had a weird taste and smell to her vagina.
I’m going to confront her tomorrow. Just had a rough time right now and decided to drink something to calm my nerves.
While I was waiting for her to come back from his place today (again…) I decided to check her Facebook and Gmail, since I had this feeling that something was really happening. I found several messages on Facebook between both of them and several emails that were sent back and forth.
To sum it up, she was cheating on me. I found out that they had exchanged dozens of naked photos before she started to go to his place, I also found several Facebook messages that were pretty graphic and flirty. She was also planning in leaving me and moving together with him.
I then confronted her with all the emails and messages, a fight ensured, lots of cursing and yelling. I asked her about that time that I mentioned in the other post and that I had noticed that something was off. She laughed and basically admitted of having sex with him before arriving home, but according to her with was with a condom, I don’t believe in this because she takes the pill, so I’m going to get tested for STD’s this week.
I was pretty disgusted and still am pretty shocked at all this, and gave her half hour to grab her shit and leave. According to a friend she is now living with him. It was as if she became a different person in a matter of weeks, I can’t believe that this shit has happened with.
She is now gone from my life, a 4 year relationship screwed. Been trying to raise my spirits and put my mind off the situation with a few friends. So, I want to thank everyone for the support and advice. I guess my instinct was right…